As grownups, we have a lot of responsibilities and a limited amount of time to get them done. We have work, children, car insurance, and so many other tasks that must be done. So, where does that leave our sexual lives? Where can we fit our sexual needs into these hectic, go go go, schedules? Well, lucky for us, this already has an answer: a quickie. Yes, these are popular in the movies and they should be popular in your life as well. Just because your calendar is full doesn’t mean you should neglect your sexual needs.
Not only are quickies… quick, but they are extremely arousing because of the sheer intensity, urgency, and fear that that door you forgot to lock will slam open. So, here are nine sex positions when you and your partner need a quickie. Just remember to lock the door.
#1 STANDING DOGGY
This simple position allows you to have quick sex whenever you need to. Just stand behind your partner as they stand in front of you, bent at a 90-degree angle. If the both of you have amazing balance you can do this with no support, but its recommended for safety—and your partner’s comfort—that your partner support themselves against a table or wall. Penetrate your partner from behind. This position can be done nearly anywhere you have some privacy and gives you an excellent view of your partner. Not only can you enjoy their pleasure, but you can stimulate their genitalia with your hand or a toy, says Alicia Sinclair, a sexologist. In addition, this position is excellent to target your partner’s G-spot or prostate.
#2 SEATED GRIND
This position is excellent for quick sex when you only have a little space. If you can sit down, then you can do the seated grind. As it involves grinding with your partner, there is little movement, which will boost the quietness so you can be anywhere when using this position.
You perform this position by sitting down while your partner straddles you. To support themselves, your partner wraps their legs around your waist. You can give them excellent stimulation of their feet if they enjoy that and when compared to an up and down motion, both of you can enjoy a lot more friction.
#3 SHOWER SEX
If you want to start or end your day right, add shower sex to your relationship. Are you running late to a meeting, work, or some other event? You and your partner can get clean together while having sex. According to Sinclair, you or your partner should lean against a shower wall and lift one leg. This allows either of you to penetrate easily. Because both of you have one leg on the floor, you can support yourselves and lower your chance of sustaining a sex-related injury—which is quite common. Stay safe as you get clean and satisfied.
#4 SEX ON A DESK
When you can find a flat surface, like a washer/dryer, desk, or a countertop, you can have quick sex. This super simple position just requires your partner to sit on a high surface, open their pelvis area, and you can stand on the floor. To increase your pleasure, your partner can place their legs on your shoulders while you continue thrusting. This works best when you and your partner are already in a groove.
#5 STAIRCASE DOGGY
When you are too turned on to make it upstairs, the staircase doggy is the perfect position for both of you. To perform this position, both of you kneel on the stairs. Your partner settles on a step above you and the two of you can enjoy each other. If you want to move up the stairs slowly, offering more pleasure, you can do that, as well.
A very simple position, 69 offers mutual pleasure at the same time. You can be on the floor or bed and enjoy each other’s most precious areas. With this position, you may be more aroused as your partner becomes more aroused.
An excellent position for morning sex or as you age, spooning requires little movement but offers a lot of pleasure. If you or your partner has hit the snooze button more times than you can count, you may just want to wake up and get your adrenaline pumping with some morning sexual relations. When spooning you can penetrate your partner from the back as they grind against you to increase pleasure. While spooning, there is no need to neglect your partner’s clitoris, testicles, nipples, or other areas, as they are easily accessible.
#8 THE LOTUS
A super intense combination of sexual relations and intimacy, the lotus leaves you and your partner wrapped around each other like mating snakes. This position can be done in many different areas and requires only that your partner sits in your lap and the two of you hug each other as closely as possible. Not only will you be able to fit in small spaces, but you can effortlessly stimulate erogenous zones such as your partner’s neck, nipples, clitoris, or penis. Because you are face-to-face, you can add a lot of kissing and eye contact to boost the intimacy and pleasure.
#9 X MARKS THE SPOT
This position only requires a high flat surface or that you kneel if a lower surface is used. Your partner lies on their back with their legs resting on your shoulders and crossed at the ankles. You stand and penetrate them. You can thrust deeply and your partner can enjoy increased friction due to the placement of their legs.
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Sex can be slow or it can be fast. The choice is yours. Never think you don’t have time to enjoy yourself and your partner. Urgency only makes it more arousing.